Is he ready?
Going through a breakup is usually painful but you have to move on. Leave the past behind you and find someone new to make a fresh start. But is he really prepared for this or are you just the rebound. Here are 7 signs to keep and eye out for.
You go out with him and after a while you realize that both of you like the same band or the same actor or maybe even share the same hobby, but the conversation never goes beyond that part. Don’t get me wrong, your interests may be amazing, it’s just that he simply does not care.
Sure he is single. But how long has he been single for? If he has been single for month then he has probably already gotten over her. But if it’s been only a few weeks are worse a few days, then you have to be careful. Chances are that he may soon break up with you as well. Or you with him
Yes, he had a life before he met you, but do you really need to know where they used to go for a coffee or diner? ”That restaurant is my favorite” sound a lot better than ” That’s the place I used to take her out to. It’s my favorite”.
He does not have to delete every picture he has with her and he does not have a problem uploading pictures where you are together. But he can at least change his darn profile picture to a one without his ex in it. Maybe even move his old pictures to a different album. Boredom is not really an excuse, when people go through his profile picture and can’t decide which one of you he is dating.
Even if he means it as a compliment, it just shows that she is still in his mind. But if he compares you to his ex in a negative way, then maybe it’s time for you ti realize that this guy is not good for you. Give him a hard wake up call and break up with him as soon as possible. You deserve better.
Having lots of sex is beneficial for a healthy relationship. But if that is all you do, then maybe you should not invest any feeling on him. He could be looking for something short-term. If however the sex part is amazing you can always sit down and talk it like a couple of adults and decide to continue as friends with benefits. That way everyone wins.
I am not saying that you are both brunettes. But if you have more than just a few similarities, then you may have to think about why he is with you. Same body type, same hair color and you sound just like her? There is a good chance then, that you are more than just his type. You are his ex. Confront him and ask him about it. If it’s true, then on your way out tell him that you only date Johnny Depp lookalikes
I am not saying that you are both brunettes. But if you have more than just a few similarities, then you may have to think about why he is with you. Same body type, same hair color and you sound just like her? There is a good chance then, that you are more than just his type. You are his ex. Confront him and ask him about it. If it’s true, then on your way out tell him that you only date Johnny Depp lookalikes!
It is really difficult to get over the past.But, this post helps in moving on.